Shocking Secrets of Masturbation - Masturbation and Relationships - Part 10
Hi everyone. And we're continuing with masturbation, and we left off in the previous interview where we had walked the process of female masturbation in how the female would utilize either the left hand or the right hand, and how that signified her relationship toward her mother and father. And much of that alignment of the female in relation to her relationship with either her mother or her father has to do in terms of the younger childhood years, in terms of which aspects of the mother or father she developed a closest connection to.
Hi 大家好, 讓我們繼續解釋自慰, 我們上次講到我們走過了女性自慰的過程, 和女性怎樣運用左手或右手, 和這點怎樣代表她與母親和父親的關係. 和女性對這種她與母親或父親的校準, 大部份都跟她童年時, 她跟母親或父親發展了最親密的關係有關.
Now, that entire process of connection has much to do with the beingness of the being. Now, as we've walked in terms of the beingness of the being being integrated into the mind consciousness system and the human physical body, which is also been walked in detail in the what is sex interview series, that the beingness of the being had been manifested and channeled into the mind consciousness system with the signature of the being into the relationship system. Now, in terms of relationships within the processes of existence before the changes manifested within existence as a whole, where we'll have a look at what these changes were that transformed and changed the nature of relationships within this world and this reality between human beings; but for the moment, in terms of having a look at this nature of relationship with the female in relation to her mother or father was within where families were manifested into group souls. And, 'group souls' where, individual beings, within the interdimensional-dimensional existence were categorized and organized and manifested into group contexts.
現在, 這整個連接過程跟你的存有體很有關係. 現在, 當我們走過關於你的存有體怎樣被心智意識系統, 和人類物質身体整合, 這部份亦在什麼是性訪談系列中有詳細解釋, 你的存有體被實化/表現和導入心智意識系統裏，連帶著你的標識(Signature)進入關係系統裏面. 現在關於整体存在中關係在存在的進程的實化/表現改變之前, 我們將會看看這些轉化和改變在這個世界和現實裏人類關係本質的改變; 但現在, 我們看看女性跟母親或父親的關係本質/特性, 在家庭關係中實化/表現為靈魂群組(Group Souls) 的情形. 而, ‘靈魂群組’, 是當個別人仕, 在跨次元-維度存性存在裏時, 被整理, 分類, 實化/表現成的群組背景.
If for example an individual being within the group context had a particular affinity toward another being within the group, and for example that being that had a particular beingness relationship with, now within their life experience manifested as their mother, would thus through their very beingness, resonating in their mind consciousness system and human physical body, would connect. And this is one of the dimensions in relation to relationship within this world and reality that influenced, for example, a child's relationship toward their mother and/or their father. If that being was for example their father in this life, the female would thus have aligned herself, her relationship system, her mind consciousness system, in relation to her father. And this is thus how the female through masturbation will utilize either her left hand, representing a relationship with her mother, or her right hand representing a relationship with her father. [4:28]
例如如果你在某個群組背景裏, 對同組的另一個人仕有特別的喜好, 例如這個人仕已經(在群組裏)有了特定的存有體(Beingness)關係, 現在在他們的人生經歷實化/表現成了她們的母親, 便會因此透過她們的存有體, 在她們的心智意識系統和人類物質身体裏發生共鳴, 兩者會連接在一起. 而這是對在這個世界和現實關係, 例如,影響一個小孩對他/她與母親/父親的關係的其中一個維度. 如果例如這個人仕成了她們這生的父親, 那她就會向着她的父親, 她的關係系統, 她的心智意識系統校準自己. 因此以上就是女性怎樣透過自慰運用左手, 代表着與母親的關係, 或右手代表着與父親的關係.
Now, with some females, for example, that use both the left hand or the right hand would thus have, as their main focus, only their mother and their father. And that relationship interaction with the mother and father that she had observed from her childhood younger years and throughout her life up to this moment, where she physically engaged with masturbation. Where, we had explained if she only uses her left hand, the relationship was primarily only toward the mother, and would thus have throughout her younger childhood years, taken into storage or imprinting and manifestation into her mind consciousness system her mother's entire interaction with males in general, and would thus have a look at how her mother utilizes her entire physical expression, her voice, the detail of who she is and how males in general responded to her.
現在, 例如, 有些女性, 會同時用左手和右手代表, 她們主要的焦點, 都只集中在自己的母親和父親上. 她在童年時一直到現在觀察母親與父親的關係互動, 她用來在身体上自慰. 當, 我們前面解釋過, 如果她只用左手, 她的關係主要是向着母親, 並因此在她整個童年時期, 把她母親與一般男性的所有互動, 儲存, 烙印或實化/表現在她的心智意識系統裏面, 並且因此參考看她母親怎樣利用她整個身体表現, 她的聲調, 她的細節, 和一般男性對她的反應.
And also obviously the father, but it was that general connection between the female and her mother making that decision that how her mother is acting and behaving in relation to relationship with males is how she would like to have males respond to her, and so will accordingly program herself into her relationship profile system of her relationship system of her mind consciousness system, to layer and prepare her entire relationship personality through masturbation in literally within masturbating, prepare her entire relationship experience, self, who she is, how she is, when she'd encounter a male within her world and her reality. And then also within that, the very nature of males, but we'll get to that in a moment. [07:01]
顯然的還有父親, 但是這條在女性與她母親普遍的連接, 她(自己)決定了她的母親對男性怎樣的言行舉止, 而男性對她母親的回應是她喜歡的, 然後跟據這些資料預編程自己進入心智意識系統, 關係系統裏的關係輪廓系統, 透過自慰分層堆積地準備她整個關係性格, 事實上是透過自慰, 準備她整個關係体驗, 自己, 她是誰, 她是如何, 當她將來在她的世界和現實裏面對男性時. 當中還有男性的本質, 我們會在下面談到.
And then with the right hand, it would have been in terms of just the father in how the father would treat and engage and hold or speak toward the female, towards the mother, and making that decisive experience of wanting to have that type of experiences or behavior or relationship of males in her world and her reality for her future, and so will accordingly program and layer and manifest her relationship profile, and her relationship personality according to her relationship with her father. Now, as we have walked in these interviews, the context of that relationship with the female with her father is not sexual in nature. It is simply components or parts that the female would utilize in creating, designing and manifesting her relationship personality and her relationship profile, where it only becomes sexualized when and as she actually does thus go into a physical relationship with another male, or utilizes those aspects, parts or components of the relationship, and integrate and manifest it into her masturbation profile.
然後到右手, 這次只是調轉變成父親怎樣對待, 與女性/母親展開話題, 擁抱或談吐, 然後她在她世界和現實裏對自己將來的男性, 想得到什麼樣的体驗, 行為或關係做決定体驗, 就這樣相對地依據她與父親的關係預編程, 分層和實化/表現她的關係輪廓, 她的關係性格. 現在, 就如我們一起走過訪談中解釋過, 女性與她父親的關係並不帶色情的成份. 它純綷是女性用來創造, 設計和實化/表現她的關係性格和她的關係輪廓構成的一部份, 只有當她真正與另一個男性進入一段實際的關係後, 或利用這些關係部份/部件, 與她的自慰輪廓整合後才會變得性激化.
And this is also if we have a look at our relationship toward our parents, and many young people can recall, in terms of what it is you've physically experienced with your parents, like the 'comfort', the 'love', the 'enjoyment', the 'safety', the 'wholesomeness of knowing that you're being cared for, and how similar those experiences that you have toward your parents, the relationship you have toward your parents will be within your primary relationship in your world and your reality, where you'll want the same kind of love, the same kind of care, the same kind of feeling safe, feeling protected, and the very energies of those experiences are equal and one and the same. And that's how you transfer the relationship you had with your mother and father into your individual relationship with another human being within your life experience. And that transfer manifests through the relationship system, your masturbation, and your programing of your relationship profile and your relationship personality.
同樣地如果我們看看我們對父母的關係, 很多年青人都記得, 關於父母對你實際的体驗, 像‘舒適’, ‘愛’, ‘愉快’, ‘安全’, ‘完全感受到你正被呵護着’, 和這些你對父母的体驗, 多麼跟你在世界和現實裏的主要關係相似, 當中你渴望得到相同的愛, 相同的關懷, 相同的安全感, 感到受保護, 所有這些能量体驗都是一体等同的. 這就是你怎樣轉移自己與父母的關係, 到你人生中與另一個人的個人關係上. 這種轉移是透過你的關係系統, 你的自慰, 你預編程你的關係輪廓和你的關係性格進行的.
So, that's why in terms of masturbating with both your hands, your focus is then in the difference between only masturbating with your left or your right hand, is where with your left or your right hand the relationship is only individualized toward your mother or your father, whereas is both hands, your relationship is integrated into both, together, and only your mother and father that you'll utilize, and specifically copy and imitate, and manifest, and orientate your self, your relationship personality, and your relationship experience toward another human being as exactly the same or similar as a relationship that your parents had, and what's even more interesting within this is that you will even notice, or many human beings don't consider or even realize how this manifest or exist, where the person that you go into relationship with will physically look similar to your mother and/or your father, and even when you look generations back, that how your parents looked like when they were a similar age is quite the same in how this being that you're going into relationship with is a particular age, and can contrast the similarities.
所以, 當你用双手來自慰時, 這跟你只用左手或右手自慰的分別, 是當你用左或右手時, 你的焦點只集中向着你與父或母的關係, 相反當用双手時, 兩者的關係一起與你整合, 並且只有你利用母親或父親, 特別複製, 模仿, 實化/表現, 定位自己, 你的關係性格, 和你對另一個人的關係体驗的部份, 跟你與父母的關係是完全一樣或類似的, 更有趣的是你甚至會察覺, 或很多人都不會考慮, 或甚至察覺上述的狀態是怎樣實化/表現, 或存在的, 當你與發生關係的人, 外表跟你的父或母或兩者都很相似, 即使你查看數代以前的祖先, 看看他/她們在差不多跟你伴侶相同年紀時, 是和你將進入關係的人在一個特定年齡的情形, 能夠對比/看出相同之處的.
Now, this similarity, even physical appearance, is specific in the programming of the relationship profile, the relationship system, and your relationship personality, in where we have also explained or already walked in terms of how you will upload, and store and imprint and manifest within you from a very young age, the preferences in terms of hair, and eyes, and skin, and clothes, and behavior and voice and things like that, where while you're doing that already at a young age what is influencing your decisions is your very beingness, your very relationship that you have with your mother and/or your father, and what aspects of your mother or father within your parents' relationship profile of your relationship system, you take or draw from in terms of creating and manifesting your relationship profile in the being that you're going to be going into relationship within your life experience.
現在, 這種類似, 即使是外表, 也是特定地被預編程在關係輪廓, 關係系統和你的關係性格裏, 當中我們亦解釋或走過, 關於你小時候怎樣在裏面上傳, 儲存, 烙印和實化/表現, 對頭髮, 眼睛, 皮膚, 服飾, 言行舉止諸如此類的喜好, 當你在很小的時候已經開始這樣做時, 影響着你的決定的, 是你的存有體, 你與父或母或兩者的關係, 和在你關係系統裏, 父母關係輪廓中, 你收集了些什麼父或母的特性, 用來創造, 實化/表現你的關係輪廓在那位你在人生經驗裏你將與之發生關係的人裡面.
And the role that masturbation plays within this process is detailing the relationship personality of your relationship system for your mind consciousness system in developing, programming, manifesting, and preparing you to have a relationship with another human being. I mean, relationships are not simply something that suddenly, unexpectedly came about. It's quite interesting how many times you would for example see someone or meet someone and there's just this flurry of reactions that emerge within your solar plexus and your mind, and it overwhelms you. And beings think or believe that, that moment is a sign from the universe or existence, but what is not in any way even remembered is the extensive process that you have walked from a very young age to prepare yourself for such a particular moment to have such a particular experience toward a particular human being. And much of the processes involved in creating that initial energetic discharge of meeting "the one" or that person that you want to be in a relationship with, has manifested through masturbation. [15:29]
而自慰在這個過程中扮演的角色, 是為你的心智意識系統進行發展, 預編程, 實化/表現和預備你與別人進入關係,詳細設定你關係系統裏的關係性格. 我意思是, 關係並非突然發生的. 很有趣地, 你會無數次例如看到或與某人碰面, 然後在你腹腔神经叢和心智裏冒起激動的反應, 而它壓倒了你. 而人仕認為或相信, 這刻就是宇宙或存在給你一種訊號, 但事實上完全不是這麼一回事和你甚至記不起, 你在很小的時候走過上述的過程準備了自己, 為這樣特定的時刻, 對特定的人, 有這種特定的反應. 大部份對當遇到 “真命天子/女”或你喜歡想發生關係的人, 製造這種初次能量性放電 的過程都是透過自慰實化/表現的.
And if we have a look in terms of masturbation in the extent of pictures, of fantasies, of images, movies, random people, that you utilize within your masturbation or fantasy profile or reality, and how that merge with your parents' relationship profile, as well as your beingness relationship with toward your parents. I mean, all of those processes are manifesting within your mind, throughout your life. And throughout that time, and during that time, there is massive, extensive energy build up within your relationship system for your relationship personality, and when everything is complete and successful in where you have aligned your relationship system, your primary relationship profile and relationship personality, that then discharges in the moment where you meet a person or see a person or encounter a person that is in similar or exact same alignment as what you have preprogrammed your relationship personality or relationship profile with within your relationship system. And that discharge is then experienced as a sign or a message or something very beautiful and magnificent and great, but the processes that are really involved in creating that energetic experience are quite detrimental on your actual self in terms of not realizing the extent to which you are in no way in control of the relationships that you engage in or with because of the extent to which masturbation had played a role in the creation of those relationships. [18:02]
如果你看看自慰, 當你利用圖畫, 性幻想, 映像, 影片, 隨機的人們, 在你的自慰, 性幻想輪廓或現實泛濫的程度, 與你怎樣與你父母關係輪廓, 還有你對著你的父母的存有體關係的整合. 我意思是, 所有上述的過程都在你人生裏, 在你心智裏不斷實化/表現 . 在那段期間, 在你的關係系統裏為你的關係性格累積了大量能量, 當所有一切都完成了, 你成功地與你的關係系統, 你的主要關係輪廓和關係性格校準後, 那刻當你遇到/看到一個與你過往, 在關係系統裏預編程你的關係性格, 或關係輪廓完全一樣或類似的人就進行放電. 而這種放電体驗被解讀為一種徵兆, 訊息或某些華麗和偉大的東西, 但事實上真正參與造成這種能量性体驗的過程, 對真正的你的實際生活是有決定性的, 由於你不了解你將沒有辨法控制你所投入的關係到達什麼程度，因為自慰已經在創造這些關係上扮演了一個角色的程度.
And within these interviews, we're going to walk through in terms of why it is that for example you go into relationships for short term, or long term, meaning a year or 2 or 3, and they just fall and collapse, and mostly end up quite compromising or abusive or violent, and impacts on you to such an extent that it almost manifests a scar, a tear in your very beingness, a wound that never wants to heal and haunts your very mind throughout your entire life, of "Why?! I loved them so much! Why did it end? What did I do wrong? What's wrong with me? Is there something wrong with me?" And I'm certain there are many human beings that have gone through this, where it was like there was that one person, and it all went astray, and you still cannot seem to let go of that person or persons. ********* And why and how it is, and what happens within your relationships when for example you have gone through that initial traumatic experience of your heart being ripped out of your chest, and how that will influence or affect all of your relationships in the future. And what is and has masturbation's role been within creating and manifesting that relationship with that human being in the first place. And how with creating relationships within the starting point of and through masturbation will completely affect your self-judgment.
在這些訪談中, 我們將會走過關於為什麼例如你會發生短暫關係, 或長期關係, 意思是一年, 兩年或三年, 然後就分手, 大部份都以互相傷害, 虐待性, 暴力收場, 並且對你的存有體造成一種恐懼, 撕裂的衝擊, 一個永遠不能痊癒的傷口, 在你的人生裏不斷纏繞着你的心智, 不斷問自己 “為什麼?! 我這麼愛他/她們! 為何會分手? 我做錯了什麼? 我怎麼了? 是我有問題嗎?”我肯定很多人都經歷過上述的情況, 當他/她就像你的真命天子, 然後大家就分開了, 而你仍然對他/她念念不忘. 和為什麼和怎麼, 和你的關係例如當你經歷了第一次傷心欲絶後, 這對你未來的所有關係有什麼影響. 還有自慰開始時怎樣對你的對象/真命天子, 創造和實化/表現出一段關係, 當中所扮演的角色. 和當你的起始點是透過自慰來創造關係時, 它怎樣徹底地影響着你的自我-判斷.
Self-judgment, not within the context of judgment as in judging yourself in terms of inferiorizing yourself, making yourself bad or less than or things like that. Self-judgment, more within the context of your critical self-assessment. And how it influence and affect your primary personality, your ego, and thus will set off the entire domino-effect consequence manifestation within your entire experience within all of your relationships. And if you continue with your masturbation processes after you had such initial relationship experiences with your heart being ripped out of your chest, figuratively speaking, you will thus within those processes in continuing with masturbation, you will solidify how you have changed and altered who you are within your ego, your main personality, and your living. You will remanifest and reintegrate whatever changes you made of who you are based on that relationship experience that was caused by masturbation in the first place.
自我-判斷, 並不是指在不斷批判自己的背景下卑微化自己, 令自己傷心或萎縮自己諸如此類之事. 自我-判斷比較指你批判性的自我-評價. 和它怎樣影響着你的主要性格, 你的自我(Ego), 並且因此在你所有關係的整個体驗中, 觸發一系列的骨牌效應, 實化/表現出連鎖後果. 當你傷心欲絶後若果繼續自慰, 你會鞏固你對自己, 自我, 你的主要性格, 和你生活的改變. 你會再次實化/表現, 和再次整合你基於這段一開始因為自慰造成的關係体驗, 而改變/改寫了自己是誰.
And so you will constantly and continuously create relationship timeloops for yourself where you will for example sabotage or compromise or create conflict within all of your relationships, and none of them will ever really work because what masturbation then becomes within its very nature is equal to and one with how sex work and how sex manifest within our minds and our physicals, in where with that very relationship with masturbation, the energy permeates and infiltrates your entire mind consciousness system and human physical body and so solidifies and manifests and evolves the decision that you made of who you are, and thus how through masturbation, we literally, physically create, solidify and manifest who we are, over and over and over again which we'll also explain and give perspective of why it is that many human beings find it so difficult to actually, physically, really change. Where, it is very easy and simple to make a decision to change in your mind, but when it comes to the actual physicality thereof, in really physically changing you in this world and reality, it becomes really difficult. And we're going to show you the role that masturbation plays in that, interestingly enough. [23:37]
你還會不斷為自已創造時間環路(Timeloop), 例如你會在你所有關係中傷害或妥協, 或製造爭執, 而沒有一段關係會長久, 因為自慰在本質上是與性行為的運作, 和在我們的心智和身体裏所實化/表現出來是一体等同的, 透過自慰的關係, 能量滲透和穿透你整個心智意識系統, 和人類物質身体, 並且鞏固, 實化/表現和進化我們決定改寫自己成為什麼模樣的人, 並且因此透過自慰, 我們實際上在不斷重複又重複地創造, 鞏固和實化/表現我們是誰, 我們亦將會對為什麼那麼多人類, 對真正, 實際地改變自己感到很困難, 給予解釋和一些看法. 相反, 在你心智裏作出改變決定卻很容易, 但當到了真正實際, 真的在這個世界和現實, 實行改變時, 它就變得真的很困難. 我們還會給你看看, 很奇怪地, 自慰在上述情況中所扮演的角色.
What's fascinating about this process is that, a common statement that is made but really not understood is, 'we always miss the obvious.' And if we have a look at the extent to which masturbation plays a role in our world and reality, as well as sex relationships, that we have never considered the extent to which masturbation influence, affect and control who we are, what we life, and how we live. And in these interviews we're going to expose the obvious, where you'll see, realize and understand for yourself the extent to which masturbation can, and let me be frank, fuck with you in really having the potential, the opportunity, to become so much more as a living, expressive being in this world, in this reality. And why it is that we as humanity has, throughout time, simply devolved, where we in no way are having any substantial relationships, not even with ourselves within our own minds.
這個過程奇妙在, 一句常用但我們卻不明白的成語, ‘視而不見, 聽而不聞 (We always miss the obvious)’, 如果我們自慰, 和性關係現時在我們世界和現實中所扮演的程度, 我們從來都沒有考慮過自慰能夠影響和控制我們是誰, 我們為什麼而活, 和怎樣活我們人生的程度. 在這些訪談中, 我們將會展露這些顯然的, 你會為自己看到, 察覺和明白到自慰能夠, 讓我說白一點, 真的搞砸你原本有的潛能和機會, 在這個世界, 這個現實裏活出更如同活著的表達的人仕的程度. 和為什麼我們作為人類, 經年累月後, 變得退化, 我們完全沒有任何實質的關係, 甚至連對自己或自己的心智也沒有.
'Substantial relationships' meaning relationships with human beings, with humanity, with this world as a whole, that really assist and support us to reach our utmost, absolute, fullest potentials. I mean, why is it that in this world and this reality at the moment, no human being has an absolute guaranteed chance of really reaching your utmost, absolute potential in realizing who you really are, what you're really capable of being and becoming and doing? But instead, it has become a complete reality of where you have, mentally and physically, got to fight for your survival. And your primary relationship is simply your relationship with sex, with sex in masturbation. And within interviews to come, you'll see, realize and understand the obvious: That the primary relationship that you have with yourself, that permeate your entire mind consciousness system and your physical living in this world and reality is in relation to sexuality. [26:34]
‘實質的關係’意思是真正能夠支援和協助我們開發最高, 絶對和最大潛能, 的人與人之間, 人類與其他種族間, 整体世界的關係.我意思是, 為什麼現時在這個世界和現實中, 沒有人有絶對保証能夠開發自己最高, 絶對和最大潛能的機會, 察覺到你事實上是誰, 什麼是你真的能夠成為, 變成和所做的? 相反, 世界完全變成了一個你必需, 在精神和肉体上, 必需競爭求存的現實. 而你主要的關係就純綷是你與性的關係, 透過自慰進行性行為. 在往後的訪談裏, 你會看到, 察覺和明白顯然的: 這種你與自己, 滲透在你整個心智意識系統和你在這個心智意識系統和你實際在這個世界和現實裏生活的主要關係, 是跟性狀態有關的.
And there is this yearning within beings to have a substantial, real, assisting and supportive relationship. I mean, it exists! It exists from the perspective that we know it is possible, but why is it that all of our relationships that we have, never manifests equal to and one with that experience that we have within ourselves of what relationships really can be? And the role, obviously, that masturbation plays within that in how our relationships become manifested within the nature of our interactions that we created in our masturbation-fantasy reality. And that then becomes how we will approach the relationship, how we act and behave and speak and handle conflicting situations and things like that, instead of really approaching the relationship within who we are and how we live. [27:48]
然後在人仕裏面還有這種渴望擁有一段實質, 真實, 協助和支援性的關係. 我意思是, 真的有這種關係的! 它存在的意思是我們知道它是有可能發生的, 但為什麼我們過往所有的關係, 從來都沒有與我們心裏對關係真的本應/可以如此的体驗, 實化/表現成一体等同? 而, 顯然的, 自慰所扮演的角色中令我們的關係變成我們透過在自慰-性幻想現實互動下創造的本質下實化/表現. 然後這變成了我們開始/處理關係, 我們的言行舉止, 行為, 處理爭執和諸如此類之事的基礎, 不會真的基於我們是誰和我們應該怎樣生活而開始/處理關係.
Okay, so we're going to go up to here in this interview for today. There is a lot more to come in how we're going to be approaching and walking through masturbation. And we have within this interview, and from this interview onward, for a moment going to have a look at various different contexts of masturbation before we get into what masturbation is and has become today in terms of how we create and manifest ourselves and our very physical living in this world and reality through masturbation. Alright, thank you very much. [28:47]
好的, 所以今天我們談到這裏. 往後還有很多我們會透過自慰, 處理和行走的路. 我們在這個訪談中解釋過, 和從現在開始, 我們會暫時看看自慰的各種背景, 然後才深入解釋自慰今天變成了什麼一回事, 意思是我們怎樣透過自慰創造和實化/表現我們自己, 和我們在這個世界和現實的實際生活. 好的, 十分感謝各位.